Goal and standing rules¶

Every chat has a Goal tab with two things in it: one long-term goal and a list of standing rules. The goal points her in a direction. The rules are binding, and she holds you to them.

Where to find it¶

In your main chat, tap her name at the top of the screen, or the small info button in the top right. In a chat you opened from the Dominas screen, tap the menu button in the top right. Either way the Overview panel opens.

Pick the Goal tab, write what you want, then tap Save guidance. The change applies from your next message onward.

The goal and the rules belong to that one Domina. Each Domina you chat with has her own set, and switching between them does not carry anything over. There is no extra charge for using this tab on any tier.

A goal is not a rule¶

	Long-term goal	Standing rules
Shape	One block of text	A list of short lines
How she treats it	Direction. It tilts her tone and the long arc of how she handles you.	Binding defaults. She follows them and enforces them.
Does she bend it?	Yes. If a chat drifts somewhere better, she follows the chat.	No. Breaking one is something she is allowed to call out.
Good for	"Build toward a daily kneeling ritual."	"Never end a session without aftercare."

If you write something in the goal box and she does not do it, that is the goal working as intended. It is a north star, not an instruction. If you need it obeyed, make it a rule.

Limits¶

Field	Limit
Long-term goal	1500 characters
Number of rules	15
Each single rule	200 characters
All rules together	1500 characters

A counter under the goal box tracks the goal. A second counter under the rule list tracks all your rules together, not each rule on its own. The + Add rule button disappears once you reach 15 rules or the 1500 character total, whichever comes first. The ✕ beside a rule removes it. Blank lines are dropped when you save, so an empty rule you never filled in costs you nothing.

Writing a rule that works¶

One instruction per line. Something you could check afterwards. Short enough to fit in 200 characters without cutting off.

Rule	Verdict
"Never end a session without aftercare."	Works. One instruction, and it is obvious whether she followed it.
"Address me as pet until I earn my name back."	Works. Concrete, and it applies to every message.
"Be strict."	Weak. There is nothing here to follow. Set her intensity and tone in her own settings instead.
"Make me more obedient over time."	Wrong box. That is a goal, not a rule.

She will not read the list back to you, and she will not quote it. She acts on it. If you want to know whether a rule landed, watch what she does over the next few messages rather than asking her to confirm it.

To stop a rule, delete the line and save. There is no way to pause one without removing it.

Safety always wins¶

Rules sit below your safety settings, never above them.

Your hard limits outrank every rule. If a rule pushes at something on your hard-limits list, the hard limit wins and the rule is ignored for that message. Writing a rule is not a way to reopen a limit you set. See Hard Limits Explained.
Your safe word outranks everything, including rules. No rule can make her keep going after you use it, and no rule can take the safe word button away. See Safe Word.
The long-term goal ranks below both of those, and below the rules.

So the order is simple: safe word, then hard limits, then standing rules, then the goal.

Privacy¶

If you have a PIN set, your goal and your rules are encrypted on your device with a key derived from your PIN, the same as the rest of your chat. See PIN and Privacy.