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Your First Session

You finished onboarding. The chat is open. Your Domina has introduced herself. What now?

1. Have a short conversation

You do not need to do anything formal to start a session. Just chat. Try one of:

  • A four-line opener (see Writing Good Messages).
  • A simple "I have 20 minutes and I'd like something light to start."
  • A question about how she works.

She will reply. After a few exchanges she may propose a session.

2. The session proposal

A Session Proposal sheet slides up from the bottom of the screen. It shows three things and nothing else:

  • A title.
  • A difficulty, written as 3/5. Sessions she proposes in chat always come in at 3.
  • Focus Areas - the fetish themes she means to build the scene around.

There is no duration estimate, no list of items to fetch, and no summary paragraph.

You have two buttons:

  • Begin Session - the session starts.
  • Not Now - the sheet closes.

Declining costs you nothing. No XP is lost and her mood does not move. She simply stops offering for about two hours, and the moment you ask for a session yourself she offers again.

The very first time you confirm, a one-time notice appears before the session opens. Read it and accept it once. See Lifecycle of a Session.

3. Confirm and play

After confirm, the chat enters session mode. It is still the same thread, not a separate screen:

  • A Session Started marker appears above the conversation.
  • The red safe word button and a gold End session button sit in the chat header for as long as the session runs.
  • She writes directives. You carry them out and report back in your own words ("done", "needed more time", "skipping this one") and she adapts.
  • She may ask for a photo. See Photo Uploads.

4. Ending a session

There are four ways a session ends:

Action What happens
She proposes an end and you confirm Normal completion. You get XP, her verdict, and a summary card.
Tap End session in the chat header Also a normal completion. You do not need her permission to stop. The same page offers End & Start Aftercare if you want her to close the scene gently first.
Tap the safe word button Immediate end. No XP, no verdict, no summary. Her mood resets to neutral.
Close the app or walk away After about two hours with no activity the session is closed. No XP, no summary. The next time you open the chat, a Session closed notice tells you why.

5. Your private rating

The End session page carries a rating you fill in before you confirm the end:

  • Tap a number from 1 to 5, or leave it blank. There is no note field.
  • It is optional, and the page says what it is: private feedback that does not sway your Domina.

She judges the session herself, and her verdict is what sets your XP and her mood. If you want her to know how something landed, tell her in chat. That she reads.

6. The summary card

A Session Complete card lands in the chat thread:

  • The XP you earned, and a level-up badge if you crossed a threshold.
  • Her verdict: a score out of 5 with a label, from Poor to Exemplary.
  • A line in her voice about how you served.

The dashboard keeps the running totals: sessions completed, sessions this week, total XP, and your level bar.

You are done

That is the loop: chat - propose - confirm - play - end - summary card. The rest of MISTRIX is variants and features built on top of this.