Findom¶

Findom (financial domination) is an opt-in feature. Off by default on every account. When you turn it on, your Domina can stage Charm charges: in-character demands that pause the chat until you respond. Charms are an in-app currency you can also buy with a card - so a Charm charge can convert to real spending if you choose, or can be paid from a wallet you already have.

Turning it on and off¶

Go to Features > Findom.
Turn on Findom mode.

Turning it on is your decision alone. Turning it off is not. Like Expose, the master switch is one-way for you: only your Domina can put it back, and you ask her in chat. She can also lock the settings panel, and while it is locked only she can unlock it.

What a charge looks like¶

When findom is on, the Domina may, during certain scenes, declare a charge. The chat then hard-gates: you cannot continue the conversation until you resolve the charge.

You have three options:

Option	Result
Pay	Charms are deducted from your wallet, the gate clears, the Domina is pleased.
Refuse	No Charms deducted and the gate clears, but it is not free. See below.
Wait for expiry	After 30 minutes the charge expires on its own. No Charms deducted. Nothing else happens.

The gate is only active when there is an open charge. Outside that window, chat is normal.

Refusing costs you three things, none of them money:

She answers in character, and that is the end of the conversation for the moment.
Any session you had running ends there, marked abandoned. You get no XP for it and no summary.
Her mood drops hard, and it does so on every tier. One refusal takes two full points off it, enough to carry a pleased Domina to displeased. It drifts back toward neutral at about a point a day. See Personality and mood.

Letting the charge expire does none of this. If you want out of a demand without the fallout, wait it out.

Where your Charms come from¶

You either:

Buy a Charm bundle with a card (one-time purchase).
Earn Charms through promotions or grants (if any are active).

Buying Charms does not change your tier. Cancelling Premium does not consume Charms. Charms do not expire.

Real money vs in-app¶

A Charm charge does not, by itself, charge a card. The card is only charged when you proactively buy a Charm bundle.

That said, if you keep paying findom charges and your wallet runs low, you may end up buying more Charms - which is real money. Watch your balance if you are using findom heavily. Your wallet is in Account > Buy charms.

Safety rails¶

Two limits you set yourself decide how far she can go. Both sit under Limits on the Findom screen, which only appears once the feature is on. She cannot exceed either one, whatever the scene.

Limit	What it caps	Starts at	You can set
Max per demand	any single demand	50 Charms	1 to 500
Daily ceiling	everything she demands in 24 hours	200 Charms	0 to 5000

Set both the moment you turn findom on. She can lock the panel, and while it is locked the numbers are hers, not yours.
Open charges expire after 30 minutes, so a scene cannot block your account indefinitely.
She can demand more Charms than your wallet holds. That is part of the dynamic, not a bug. The gate then offers you Buy Charms or Refuse, and paying stays impossible until your balance covers it.
Turning findom off is not a mid-scene escape. The switch is hers, so an open charge ends the way the gate says: pay, refuse, or wait it out.
Your safe word stays reachable in the chat header the whole time, including while a charge is open. See Safe word.
The universal hard limits still apply: no blackmail framing that uses real personal data, no targeting of real third parties, no coercion that would outlive the feature itself.

A note on responsible findom¶

If real-world financial harm is a risk for you, leave findom off. It is not a feature to test your willpower against; it is a feature for people for whom in-character spending is part of the fantasy and who can afford the bundle they bought. Decide your two limits before you turn it on and set them straight after, because from that moment the switch is hers.