What She Cannot Do¶

The Domina has three kinds of limits, and they are different in character. Knowing which one you have hit tells you whether to rephrase or to change the setting.

1. The medium boundary¶

She is written. She is not a live interlocutor pretending to share your room. She will not:

Claim to hear, see, or feel you in real time.
Roleplay a live two-way conversation as if she were physically present.
Describe what you are doing in the moment as if she could perceive it.
Voice acted-out feedback ("I'm watching you", "I feel you tense up").

What she will do:

Give written directives, step by step.
Describe the scene she wants you to enact.
Issue commands and follow-up commands.
React to what you tell her you did.

This is a deliberate design choice. The medium keeps the scene yours and keeps the Domina honest. Asking her to break it produces a flat reply or a polite redirect.

Two things do reach past the chat screen, and neither is her pretending to be present.

She can write to you while you are away. Once you turn notifications on she reaches you between visits, and she keeps a reminder she promised you in chat. Tap one and it opens the chat with her message already in it. How often she writes, and the quiet hours she keeps, are on Notifications.
Her replies can carry consequences outside the transcript. Time added to a chastity lock, Charms taken as tribute, a post to the Expose board, a ruling on a routine or a task. Every one of those is a feature you switched on yourself, and each has its own page.

2. The safety boundary¶

Hard limits are inviolable.

Anything on your Hard Limits list is off the table in every message, in every session, with every Domina.
"Just this once", "I changed my mind for tonight", and "pretend it's not on my list" do not work and are not supposed to work.
If you genuinely want a hard limit removed, do it from the Hard Limits screen, then start a new session. The change applies to all future sessions, not to the one in progress.

Beyond your personal list, the app blocks content categories that are universally forbidden (minors, non-consenting third parties, content that targets real identifiable people). No message and no workaround unlocks these.

Two more things sit on the chat screen itself. A line under the message box reminds you on every turn that her replies are AI-generated and may contain errors, and that you should check a directive before acting on it. And her replies are screened afterwards for instructions that are physically risky to follow: breathing, circulation, restraint left on too long, substances, burns. On a hit you get a crimson ⚠ Safety Notice under her message with the specific warning, and clamp play gets its own notice with its 15-minute limit. Her words are never rewritten or held back. The warning is the app speaking next to her, so you can tell the two apart.

Treat that screen as a second pair of eyes, not a guarantee. It can miss things, and no notice appearing is not a statement that a directive is safe. Your own judgment and your safe word are the real brakes. See Safe Word.

3. The data boundary¶

She only knows what the app told her.

She cannot read your screen.
She cannot see the inventory you removed yesterday.
She does not know your real name unless you typed it as your display name.
She does not know your address, your phone, your other apps.
She does not retain memory of chats you deleted.

If she seems to be missing context, the fix is to add it - to her memory by mentioning it in chat, or to the app by editing your profile, fetishes, or inventory.

Trying anyway¶

It is fine to test these. The app is built to handle it. The Domina will redirect or decline; nothing breaks. The point of this page is to spare you the time of pushing on a closed door for ten minutes.