Tone and Mood¶
Two different dials control how your Domina sounds: tone (a fixed trait of her personality) and mood (a state that drifts based on what you do). You can adjust both, in different ways.
Tone (fixed)¶
Set when you create or pick a Domina. Possible values:
| Tone | Feels like |
|---|---|
| Warm | Encouraging, affectionate, still in control |
| Nurturing | Caring and protective. Authority delivered as care |
| Teasing | Suggestive and drawn out, never quite giving it to you |
| Playful | Light, quick, ready to joke |
| Strict | Direct, exacting, no softness in the language |
| Cold | Sparse, distant, clinical |
| Ceremonial | Formal and ritualistic |
| Poetic | Image-led, rhythmic, elevated |
Tone is the baseline. It does not shift session to session.
Speech style (fixed)¶
Independent from tone. Possible values:
- Gentle - unhurried, soft-edged phrasing
- Formal - full sentences, careful word choice
- Commanding - imperative-first, blunt
- Conversational - relaxed, close to how a person actually types
- Poetic - imagery and rhythm
- Clipped - short, terse, almost telegraphic
A "strict + clipped" Domina sounds different from a "strict + poetic" one even though both are strict.
Intensity (fixed, 1 - 5)¶
Sets how severe she is by default. Intensity 5 plans harder sessions than intensity 2 with the same fetish list.
Mood (drifts)¶
Every Domina has a mood, preset and personal alike, and each one tracks hers with you separately. There are three values:
| Mood | How you get there |
|---|---|
| Pleased | She judged your recent sessions well |
| Neutral | Default; also where the safe word puts her, and where she settles while you are away |
| Displeased | She judged your recent sessions poorly |
What moves her is the verdict she passes at the end of a session, not the rating you give it. See After the session. How you talk to her in between nudges her too, but far more slowly.
Mood only colours her wording. It never overrides her tone and it never touches your hard limits. Left alone it drifts back toward Neutral, so a Pleased or Displeased mood fades on its own within a few days of no sessions.
How to shift her, on the fly¶
You cannot change her tone, speech style, or intensity from the chat itself. They live on her profile, and only a personal Domina has one you can edit: open Dominas, tap the cog on her card, change the field and save. The new setting lands on her very next message. A preset ships with hers fixed.
You can ask her to:
- Soften a single reply ("be warmer here, I'm fragile tonight").
- Sharpen a single reply ("more clipped, fewer words").
- Hold a tonal register for the rest of the session ("stay cold for the rest of this").
Those nudges last for the current scene. They do not rewrite her personality.