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Accessories

The Accessories inventory tab covers everything that is neither a toy nor a clothing item but is worn or used in a scene. This is where restraints and ritual objects live.

Subcategories

  • Restraints - cuffs (leather, metal, padded), rope, hogtie sets, spreaders, ankle ties.
  • Collar & Leash - collars (locking, posture, leather, metal), leashes.
  • Sensory - blindfolds, hoods, white-noise earphones, sleep masks, anything that adds or removes sensation without being a toy.
  • Gags - ball gags, bit gags, panel gags, ring gags, breathable hoods that count as gags.
  • Body - chastity devices, harnesses, body jewellery used in scene, posture aids.

Adding an item

For each item:

  • A subcategory (from above, required).
  • A name ("Padded leather wrist cuffs - black, lockable").
  • A description for size, key location, time limits, or any caveat.
  • An optional image link, which puts a thumbnail on the item row.
  • Optional fetish tags, picked from the fetish catalogue.

Once the item is saved you can also give it a Use rating of one to three hearts, and switch it off entirely when you do not want it in play.

Descriptions matter most in this tab. She looks them up when she needs to know what a piece is for, so write down sizing ("medium plug only", "tight fit on the ring gag") and any limit you keep to.

Restraints and safety

The Domina will not coach you through restraint safety. Read up on:

  • Circulation checks for limb cuffs.
  • Quick-release options - a snip-cutter near the bed for rope, a spare key for locking cuffs.
  • Spotter or check-in protocols for heavier restraint scenes.

The app expects you to know this. It enforces hard limits and the safe word; it does not replace IRL technique training.

Chastity

If you wear a chastity device under your Domina's control, add it here. The Domina then:

  • References it across sessions ("you are still locked").
  • Plans denial-themed sessions around it.

A time limit you write into the description is a note she can read, not a rule the app enforces. The real lock timer lives in Chastity.

Collars

Collars are stored here, but their meaning is set on the Fetishes > BDSM rating list (Collaring - Private, Collaring - Public). The Domina treats collaring as a ritual when the fetish is rated highly and a collar item is in your inventory.

Items you do not own

Same rule as the other tabs: only add accessories you can use today. The Domina assumes the list is current.