Referrals¶
Every account has its own invite link. If someone signs up with it and stays active, you both get 10 Charms. Reach 25 counted invites in a quarter and you also get 20 percent off a subscription payment.
Every tier can invite. Free accounts earn Charms exactly like paying ones. There is one discount that needs a subscription, described at the bottom of this page.
Where to find your link¶
- Open Account > Buy charms to reach the Shop.
- Scroll to Invite & Earn.
- Tap Copy link, or post it straight to Reddit or X with the two buttons next to it.
The link carries your personal invite code, so there is nothing to type out. The same section shows how many invites have counted this quarter, how many are still waiting, and how many days are left before the counter resets.
What counts as a verified invite¶
An invite pays out only after your friend has done all of this:
| Requirement | Detail |
|---|---|
| A new account | They register a brand new account after opening your link. An existing account cannot be attached to you afterwards. |
| The same tab | They sign up in the browser tab they opened your link in. If they close that tab before signing up, the signup is not attached to you. |
| 7 days | Their account is at least 7 days old. |
| One finished session | They have completed at least one session, all the way to the summary. |
A session that ends with the safe word does not count as completed, and neither does one that is left sitting until it is marked abandoned. See Lifecycle of a Session.
What does not count¶
- Inviting yourself. A second account of your own is never valid.
- Signups that the anti-abuse checks reject. What those checks look at is not published.
- Invites where the friend never finishes a session. 90 days after the signup the invite expires and can no longer pay out.
If an invite is rejected, nothing is deducted from you. It simply never counts.
When the Charms arrive¶
Payouts are not instant. Once your friend meets every requirement above, both sides are paid:
- Your friend gets 10 Charms. Always, even if you are at your cap.
- You get 10 Charms. As long as you are under your quarterly cap.
A payout can take up to a day to land after the last requirement is met. That is never sooner than 7 days after your friend signs up, and later if it takes them longer to finish a session. Until then the Invite & Earn section counts them as pending.
Charms go straight to your wallet. Charms covers what you can spend them on.
The quarterly cap¶
| Item | Value |
|---|---|
| Counted invites per quarter | 25 |
| Quarter length | 3 months, running from the day your current link was issued |
| Charms per verified invite | 10 for you, 10 for your friend |
Invites beyond 25 stop paying you Charms for the rest of that quarter. Your friend still gets their 10 either way.
When the quarter ends you get a fresh invite link and the counter goes back to zero. Links you shared earlier keep working, and anyone they bring in counts toward whichever quarter is running at the time.
Discount one: reaching the cap¶
The 25th counted invite in a quarter earns you 20 percent off a subscription payment. A Claim your 20% off button appears in the Invite & Earn section.
- If you already subscribe, it is applied to your subscription and comes off your next payment.
- If you are on Free, it is saved and comes off by itself at your next Premium or Premium Plus checkout. The section then reads "20% saved for your next checkout".
It is one-off: 20 percent off a single payment, not a permanent price change. It does not apply to Charm bundles. One per quarter, and one at a time: until a discount you already earned has come off a payment, reaching the cap again does not add another.
Discount two: your friend subscribes¶
If a friend whose invite was verified goes on to subscribe, both of you can get 20 percent off a payment. This works for any verified invite, including ones past your quarterly cap:
| Who | What they get | Condition |
|---|---|---|
| Your friend | 20 percent off one payment | They hold an active Premium or Premium Plus subscription. Once per invite. |
| You | 20 percent off one payment | You are on Premium or Premium Plus yourself. Once per quarter. |
This is the only part of the program that depends on your tier. On Free you still earn Charms and can still reach the cap, but this second discount needs an active subscription on your side. The section shows a state next to it: Ready when it is available, Claimed when you have used it this quarter, and Premium when your tier does not qualify yet.
Both discounts are applied for you. There is no code to enter at checkout.